I feel like I’m not being listened to

I often times find it pointless to bring up my problems or concerns to my nurse or doctor because they say the same scripted thing. My last pregnancy with my son when I was in labor I started bleeding, I asked if it was normal and the nurse asked 3 different doctors to which they all replied it was fine… well after I gave birth to my son I was passing huge clots and they told me if they didn’t get them out I’d die. Since then I was traumatized from wanting to have another child, though 6 years later I’m pregnant again and here we are at 16 weeks and I’ve been having bad pelvic pain and my wrist and legs are numb and in pain, I contacted the nurse about this and they kept saying the same thing “try pregnancy yoga, pregnancy belt, and medicine.” Which I have done all those things and nothing seems to work, I’m literally walking hunched over at times because the pain is that bad, it hurts to walk or even stand. The only comfort I find is warm showers or soaking in the bath. I’m worried about the baby and I feel like there could be something going on with me. Am I being a hypochondriac about what I’m feeling or should I get a 2nd opinion?