Well topic says it. I am looking for things to do with my husband, since our son is on vacation.

We had our son when we were 18 we started a relationship when we were 14. We had a hard time seeing each other when we were dating, as a was being fostered by different family members and my sisters in laws. We just got really attached and he gave me all the attention and love I was being neglected as a child. We tried so hard to see each other and so on as kids. When we were allowed to see each other, it was only for 2 hrs once a week or biweekly. We talked on the phone for hrs and FaceTime. So we got to know each other on the inside. But I wanted to see him so I would sneak him in (how I got pregnant) now I’m not gonna blame my mother or anyone because as an almost adult I should have took precautions and birth control. I didn’t have a relationship with anyone nor trusted anyone because my family was quick to say bad things to judge. I never told anyone I was having intercourse. I didn’t have anyone I could tell or ask for birth control. Again no ones fault but my own. Well we conceived this beautiful 5yr old we have now. So we both stepped up and did what we had to do. We lived at his moms for 1 year till we got our own place. She taught me a lot of things and I am more than grateful for her. We are 23 and recently we moved across state in the last 2 years. his mom wanted to to see our baby and she’s came to visit a few times and so have we. We let him stay with her for week and we flew back to get him. He couldn’t stop talking about all the fun he had with he’s uncles (my husband’s bothers) and that he couldn’t wait till he could visit again. We don’t know many people were we live so that means no kids and well he doesn’t get to socialize much. We gave in to letting his mom take him for a month since he loved it out there and hes seeing all the familiar faces again specially the kids. Well my husbands family is huge and lots of kids and everyone is really close. I love for my son to see that. Specially since I didn’t have that. My mother was sick since I was 6 up till 14 when she lost her visón completely and gave up on doctors and decided to leave the state to Mexico. It was my decision not to go with her so I was fostered. My mother had 5 kids I am the middle child and only one not born in the us. You can imagine why I didn’t want to leave the us. Well now my husband and I are looking for things to do since we don’t have our son and we’ll like I previously said all our time together we had spent living together has been with our son and never alone time. We are kinda lost and don’t know what to do😩. We know our son is ok and I’m good hands we talk to him for hrs on FaceTime. Yes we go on dates but it’s different

what should we do

what are good things to get to know each other more. 

Yesterday we went on go karts and it was so much fun we talked about a lot of things and how crazy life has been it hasn’t been easy but never was my life easy. I know what your thinking you live together and don’t talk yes we do but we also work different sifts so we wouldn’t pay for daycare. Because of that when I’m home he isnt. We talk on our breaks and lunch’s and weekends we do something as a family. But it’s really different now that our son isn’t here we don’t go to the zoo or the park because we did that for our son. Now I need ideas so we can have fun we are still young

Sorry posting this while at work so I didn’t reread it for grammar issues. I know I’m all over the place too with my story

Trying to give a backstory so no one judges or assumes things that aren’t

Thank you in advance