Fince said we were done

He gets very upset every time it comes to “his friends” topic. Anything I say he turns it around & says i do not like them & that is not the case.. the problem is he decides to do things before even talking to me & that is my main concern & i wish he would find a middle ground in which we both are comfortable with doing something that involves the two of us with his friends, but if he wants to do something and i express my opinion he gets mad & doesn’t want a middle ground he wants it all his way or no way. So he said we were done after an argument yesterday. *I own my own house, which i worked hard for and paid all by myself (he just helps monthly with some money when he moved in with me a couple months ago). He said “we are done” “im taking you to your house” (while in the car). He didn’t say a word to me on the way home just asked if i wanted food, when he stoped to get some for him. I tried changing his mind for more than 2hrs. But it didn’t work. Well we get home & he still doesn’t say a word & goes takes a shower, goes eat his food in the basement & sleeps in the basement. Im not sure how he thinks theSe actions are okay, specially in my house after being so cold and rude to me in the car. As of i never meant anything just for a discussion about a topic that had to do with staying over at someones house ** sleeping in the same room with the couple owners or the house for two days..**

Its the second time he does this about not trying to talk about what happened & this is very unhealthy. I do not know what to do, wait till he wants to speak or if im going to have be the one to ask him when hes leaving. He rather throw away a relationship that was the way to marriage all because he didn’t get his wY. I didn’t want this to be over but i am also not okay with him not changing the aspect of making decisions as two and not as an individual (him).