Hi, i’m new to all this, i have told my doctor time and time again that it’s not normal the pain and heaviness of my cycle. she finally did an ultrasound as fibroids run in my family but she says everything is normal

well now i’m passing very very large tissue something that my looks like a piece of my uterus or a liver tbh i don’t know how to explain it.

as it was passing it felt like i was giving birth like my back was on fire and my cramps so bad i had to hold on the the bathroom counter. it was EXTREMELY painful. as soon as this thing came out of me i had instant relief. at this point my dr has said my options are birth control or surgery and then birth control.

i’m more worried about being able to have kids than anything, not that i’m against birth control but in the past it made me depressed so i want to avoid it but im also scared of the surgery, the dr explained it so scary saying during the surgery it could go wrong and they would need to take out my ovaries if there’s damage/scarring. if you had the surgery was the surgery that bad??? i just feel as if my dr trying to talk me out of it.