8.5 years down the drain

I have just broken up with my fiancé.

She never helped with our 18 month old.. never. She never help me clean the house, do the laundry .. or pay for any of the bills. Never helped do anything … I was so sick of being a door mat to her where she just got away with doing nothing .

8.5 years down the drain.. but atleast I have my beautiful daughter

And she wanted to have another kid … but I didn’t .. cause I feel like I’ll get stuck with doing everything ontop of everything already. For my birthday she didn’t even get me something on my actual birthday except make it all about her.

I am so sad… do I have a right to end things if she wasn’t lifting her weight To help me do things and to actually be a partner and a parent :( please tell me advice

May I add.. I have always asked her for help .. and it was always an argument or an excuse.. so yes I have tried to talk to her but it never works.