Can you get herpes from kissing cheeks,

I fucked around and met up with my toxic ex and the universe is punishing me. we kissed on the cheek because he’s in a relationship and he later told me he wanted to fully kiss me but has herpes now...welp now my lip is tingling and I don’t know if I’m catastrophizing or can you get herpes from cheek kisses? So PLEH! I also kissed the back of his hands because I was THAT excited to see this motherfucker