2.uears ago when my husband and I told.my parents we were pregnant with our first child, my father reacted horribly and was upset andnsaidnhe was no happy at all that I was pregnant and acted as if he was horribly disappointed and it was a personal attack on him. He never apologized and my husband and I are still incredibly hurt though we try to move on.

Now, two years later, I belive I am pregnant with baby 2. I am still very upset about what happened and I dint know how to tell them I am pregnant again. I cant handle another reaction like past time. I thought about having them babysit and put my daughter in a big sis shirt. Or just mention it casually one day in passing or while just hanging out. I also thought about not saying anything and letting then just find out but I think that would hurt my mom and I dont want to do that. Does anyone have any advise?