Am I over reacting? It’s my birthday and my husband doesn’t

Seem to care at all that it is.

Whenever his mom calls him for anything he jumps right away, like instantly into action for her. If his new Jaguar needs something right away he jumps into action. If his brother needs something he takes action right Away.

Today my birthday, the Jaguar needed all of a sudden for a battery change something simple. So he took the DAY OFF.

His mom needed her fridge filter changed, so he took the day off to do that too.

He hasn’t been able to attend 1 single prenatal visit. They finally let him visit, he has not made any effort to come to any prenatal visit, when I’m in pain because I can barely walk I suffer from PSD he does not take a day off to help me.

It’s my bday so I’d kinda hope he would take the day off to help me in the pregnancy, instead I’m in the hospital alone while he tends to his car and mom.

So I’m like saddened.

He told me to speak up when something is bothering me, and I have and he doesn’t seem to care. So I’m feeling defeated. Is it my hormones? Is it me?