Whenever there's anything important in my life like my wedding, baby showers ect., my mother acts unpredictable and bizarre. I'm having my second baby. I didn't want a baby shower. A few weeks ago, she insisted she throw me one but a small one with family only. A couple of weeks go by, I make a registry and send it to my mil and sil only because they are the only girls who'd be able to attend as theres no cousins or aunts or uncles that live nearby. I call my mom about what time she chose for the baby shower thats in 2 weeks now and she said well who'd you invite? I say my mil and sil knows about the shower and my registry. She proceeds to say well why didn't you invite our family? I didn't invite my family because I don't talk to any of my family nor do I have their phone numbers. I don't even know their addresses. Its safe to say I'm not close to them and everyone's aware of that. I've always been that way because reasons like they are bad people, on drugs, etc. Anyways, I say we didn't communicate on specific details at any point in time so she's blaming and assuming all I wanted there was my in laws. It's not true as, again, we never spoke of details of who does what, times or anything. What the hell do I do? She's always making problems where there is none.