Tell me it gets better

Our baby is 4mo, I’ve been struggling with lots of PP things such as depression/anxiety/ dry dry dry vagina… my SO and I have been butting heads so much recently. I work and he’s a stay at home dad I try so hard not to nag him but OMG he does nothing but watch twitch and play games….

I know staying home with the baby is hard but I work and still do ALLLLLLL THE CHORES. If the roles were reversed I’d be expected to have clean house, dinner ready, 100% care of the kid. He literally does two feeds and I’m back home. We’re lucky in I own a lucrative business and only work 8-2 so i wake up with the baby, take over when I get home and do all the chores. Im literally exhausted. I show him how much I appreciate him every single day by telling him, showing him with things he likes, as many BJ’s as he wants but feel like because he stays home im not allowed to say WHAT ABOUT ME!!!!?!!!! Im not allowed to be selfish moms must always be selfless.

We need to come back together as a couple and im lost in how to.