Not attracted at all

I'm not attracted to my husband whatsoever... We've been married 7.5 years and I'm just bleh about it all. I'm heavily depressed so that doesn't help either. But I'm not finding men attractive at all. I've always been bi/pan but I'm finding myself leaning more for fem presenting people. However, that being said...I'm completely turned off by the thought of penis now as well so that's a new one... we have hella kids and our sex life was amazing😆

I just want a deeper connection I guess and cuddles and just companionship but I find myself not enjoying his company at all. I love our children and I love him like as a friend but I'm not turned on at all or interested in him anymore...

Help it's been this way for a few years now... only getting worse... anyone have any tips???