My husband and I fell pregnant our first month TTC. Sadly I had a MMC October 2020, we found out at our 12 week scan 💔 and after a D&C my cycle took a few months to come back.

This morning I took a test and received a positive! We’re so excited and scared. It’s been a huge rollercoaster and I’ve really struggled over the last 9months.

For anyone looking for reassurance, stay positive and be patience. We’re both 31 and healthy and it seems to just take time. Try to reduce stress is my biggest piece of advice.

This month:

I took a break from OPKs, no BBT and no vigorous exercise.

I enjoyed a few casual drinks of alcohol.

We BDed 4x this cycle, every other day starting CD10. I didn’t see EWCM.

During the TWW I felt no different at all. Around 13dpo I had AF like cramps and some nausea which woke me in the night. Other than that,

nothing. I waited until I was 3 days late to test.

I don’t usually post or comment but as I’ve found a lot of support here, and am somebody who has searched forums a lot, I wanted to give something back.

Don’t give up ladies. It will happen. Wishing you all the best on your journey. Remember it’s not a race x