In the moment

So there’s been a few times that me and my SO have sex and he will use “do you want me to cum in you” & me answering “yes” as a way for him to finish I guess and he just pulls out. However, and this has never happpened before (weve been together nearly 10 yrs, started dating in highschool) we were in the middle of sex and he was asking if I’d like another d*ck inside me.. although this turned me on and I’ve been struggling w my own preferences and desires internally I’m not sure if it was just him in the moment or if he meant it/it will come up again. Lately I’ve been feeling unfulfilled in multiple parts of my life with no fault to him because I really do love him but I can’t seem to pinpoint if I was turned on by the idea or if I’m thinking about being w other ppl. Any input on this? Criticism and/or advice on how to cope or address this is greatly appreciated.

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Ev

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The first thing you should do u talk to him about it and see what he thinks. This is something you 2 need to deal with as a couple.Good luck. Hope this goes well for you two.

Kr

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That’s something you need to discuss between the two of you. Ask why he said that. Tell him how you are feeling in life and how it has nothing to do with him and all

Ja

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Ain't nothing wrong with wanting to view a new car girl. I would either speak to your partner or wait to see if it's brought up again.