I need a serious conversation

Please don’t give me any crap like “you need to leave him” because I swear that’s all y’all ever say about every situation ever.

I need to have a serious conversation about coercion

My fiancé, like many fiancé’s, really wants to do anal

We tried it once 2 (maybe 3) years ago and I absolutely hated it

Ever since then he just gives me all these excuses like “we just didn’t use enough lube” or “that was so long ago we should try again”

I have absolutely no desire whatsoever to try it again. It hurt, it made me uncomfortable, it just doesn’t intrigue me whatsoever

Anyway, he will not let it go. He asks every single time, multiple times a day and it’s to the point where it literally turns me off

Like we will be doing the deed and he will ask “jokingly” and it instantly makes me dry. I don’t want to do it whatsoever

But he will not stop asking.

Every single time that I tell him to stop asking or I simply say no, it either goes in one ear and out the other, or he keeps asking, or he gets mad that I say no every time