Would you.. chose my baby or my boyfriend..?

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Basically my boyfriend wants to leave me because I am pregnant and there is a small chance it’s not his.. but I don’t think I should have to get an abortion because he let the 3 sum happen to begin with. Ugh, weird question I know 😞 also this will be my 5th child.

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I think the fathers option should be taken into consideration. But at the end of the day it’s your body and your choice and if it doesn’t feel right or you don’t want an abortion, don’t have one! Don’t do anything your not comfortable with or will regret. And Paternity tests can happen at around 9 weeks. You only need one of them to go with you.

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Dude this is your 5th kid and you don’t even know who the father is? I don’t know if it’s wise for you to keep it. It seems like you’ve got a lot of other things on your plate.

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Tbh it's so easy for people to tell you to keep the baby and all but remember if you're a single mom ur gonna support those kids alone. Can you handle and afford five kids?

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Firstly I don’t believe he just let it happen, it had to be consensual on all sides, you are not an unwilling body in this 
You need to sit him down and remind him he also participated in the threesome, and what was the agreement on contraception? 
Suggest a paternity test and find out who is the actual father and go from there……..

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Adoption

Would you.. chose my baby or my boyfriend..?

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