so my baby woke up around one and i asked my husband to go get us a bottle. he comes back and put it where i can’t reach it, i was very obviously struggling to stretch with the baby in my arms with him sitting right there. so i say “can you hand it to me” and the man huffs and acts like he’s doing me to biggest favor. then he gets up and comes over to my side of the bed, grabs my drink cup and takes the biggest sip of his life before stopping and saying “ew what did you put in here???” it’s water with lactation powder. he IMMEDIATELY spits it out back into my fucking cup. istg i had an outer body experience.

i said “you seriously did not just do that.”

this GROWN ASS MAN goes “what?” all confused-

i said “you came over here, grabbed a full cup that wasn’t yours without asking, drank it, and then spit it all back into the fucking cup, put the lid back on it and left it on my nightstand..how old are you? that’s something our toddler would do”

he straight up looked at me like i was the crazy one

so i told him to dump it out. to top it all off he then comes back in grabs my other water cup and drank all the fucking water and didn’t refill it. he really just left me with two empty cups. i- lord please give me strength.

edit: i just finished pumping and someone talk me down- i’m absolutely more than over it. 🤏 this close(actual scale) to exploding bc i’m on my way to go fill up my cup