So I have preciously posted about my ex cheating on me and feeling stuck. I’m due in 3 weeks and finally had enough when I found out that the woman he’s involved with is pregnant again after a miscarriage and leaving after kids go to bed to still see her. I just told him to move his things out and his work stuff(works from home) and to give me the keys. He obviously was upset about that stating that’s a little selfish of me and that he would then have to have the kids share a room with me since we were renting two rooms out of a house. He would need that extra money if he can’t work from home and commute from where he would stay at his friends. He stated originally he would take care of me and the kids as long as I allow it (rent, food, etc) but that would all change if he can’t have all his stuff there. I told him it’s best for me mentally and stress it can causes me. I need to actually separate myself from him knowing he’s involved with someone else. It’s not good for the kids to see me always crying. This is part of breaking up, I told him you made these choices of cheating and this is the process and consequences of a break up. I suggested also that it may be best just to go the route of child support because I can’t depend on you. What if one day out of now where you decide not to follow through. Again even more mad. That way would be more expensive for him I’m sure. He has no idea what it’s like to share custody of a kid. I have a 12 yr old from someone else. It’s not easy. Am I wrong for thinking the way I am? I can’t have him be there all day even if he does help some with the kids knowing he’s been lying to me even after he confessed he was involved with someone else. Now she’s pregnant again. And just two days ago kissing me. His reasoning of not telling me he still sees her and that she’s pregnant again is because he still cares for me and didn’t want to add more stress on me since I’m due soon. Which is completely bullshit and selfish, right?