Am I overreacting ? My marriage is over

Question

My husband and i been married for 6 years . we have a 2 year old and I’m currently 35 weeks pregnant. 
I just found out he has been texting with someone else. At first he denied everything but after me speaking to that someone else and having proof of them texting he had no choice but to confess. 
He met her when he used to do Uber. He asked for her phone number and they been flirting and he’s been insisting her to hang out and what not. He says he did it for attention because I don’t show him love. I honestly want to leave. Maybe I’m overreacting bc I’m pregnant and I’m trying to protect myself and my girls from any disappointment. But at the same time I think I’m right from wanting to leave . It was only text never physically. But it doesn’t matter right? Cheating is cheating. I’m so heart broken! It’s like I know what to do but at the same time I don’t and need help.

Accepted Answer

He’s a cheater, and he is only sorry he got caught…it will happen again. You’re not overreacting, he has a child on the way and you and them kids should be his top priority… not trying to make excuses, blaming you for his bad behaviors.

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So he would have probably gotten physical if they had hung out , and honestly who knows if they haven’t ? I would be done , I don’t want my kids thinking that’s okay in relationships. If your feeling unloved …. Talk to your PARTNER!! not some random girl .

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Mine did something similar. Our son is almost 2 now, but when I was pregnant be cheated. I caught him messaging a bunch of random women. Never met up with any of them. He said he did it because it was the nerves about becoming a new dad. (Terrible excuse). Bottom line: he knew he was wrong. We went to counseling. He stopped carrying his phone everywhere and I now have the pw. The trust is gone and it weighs on my mind heavily, but I stay because he's showing me he's trying. It's so hard and if we didn't have a child I'd prob just leave.

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My husband did something similar. Also am pregnant when it happened. He said we didn’t connect anymore and didn’t spend time liek we used to… I forgave him and weve been working on our marriage. He chose me. And has been trying hard for our marriage. It’s hard but I highly recommend marriage counseling

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Emotional cheating is just as hurtful as actual physical cheating!
It’s totally your decision on if this can be mended or not... are you willing to accept and forgive this and if you can push forward with the relationship? 
There’s obviously reasons men and women seek emotional cheating not that I’m condoling his behaviour as it’s wrong but just in general it could be down to lack of affection, attention and lack of communication? 
It’s all down to trust and building on that area now and maybe couples councilling but you maybe forgive but it’s hard to forget once trust is broken but this is for you to decide 👍🏻

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Just know it won't stop. They blame us for their actions but they are the ones messed up

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You’re not overreacting. Cheating is cheating. You have a decision to make. Either you can leave now (I understand that it’s not exactly great timing) or you can talk to your husband and decide to make it work. But he has to be fully on board. He has to end whatever is going on with this other woman, and he has to figure out how to earn back your trust.
I can’t tell you what the right decision is, but I don’t think you’re overreacting in being upset about the situation.

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1- you’re not overreacting 
2- he will do it again
3- kids aren’t a reason to stay

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He didn’t accidentally trip and fall and end up with her number - he asked for it. Deliberately. By choice.
What I’m guessing he didn’t do is talk to you at any point and express that he was feeling neglected, right? He just jumped straight to getting what he felt he was missing from somewhere else and then tried to make it your fault.
Nah. You’re not over-reacting.

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I would leave ! Anything behind your back that you wouldn’t want him doing is cheating!

Am I overreacting ? My marriage is over

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