I had a stretch and sweep at 38+ 3 days to witch my wife said I was 3cm dilated.

The day after I lost mucus plug I thought awesome anyday now yay! But no!

For 3 days now (I’m 39 weeks today) my back has been killing me my belly has been getting tighter, I’ve had on again off again mild cramps to the point I wanted them to get stronger, I’ve been feeling sick and dizzy and hot flushes and my baby’s kicking and moving has slowed down big time and when I do feel him it’s faint 😩 I really don’t want to go to hospital if this is all in my head and there isn’t anything wrong, I have 2 young kids and no car atm so it’s hard.

Should I just suck it up and call the midwife and go for a check or wait it it because labour is coming?

P.s with my first son I had no idea I was in labour and my daughter came that quick all I remember was I needed to poop 😂

Please help