Hello, I am going in for my first gynecologist appointment since my d&c in Nov 2019. I have been ttc for over 4 years now and I am finally ready to talk to a doctor about what I can do. I have been anxious about talking with a doctor because of my age (42) and the fact I am overweight, I have been afraid they will make me feel dumb for trying. I hope this makes sense

I say all of that to say I am going to swallow my anxiety and talk with them. What do you suggest I ask about, what information should I have on hand for them, how much should I talk and or push to get help.

I am not sure about this doctors stance on mother’s my age, but I feel less stressed if I have a plan of action and I would like some advice on what that should be

If you made it this far thank you, it is hard for me to reach out even though everyone and thing in here has been super supportive.

Sorry for my rambling