Anxiety over OB visits

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I had my first appointment yesterday currently 5+5 with no exam and learned that I’ll now be seeing all of the OBs and any of them can be the doctor that delivers the baby. I am a woman who appreciates her privacy - I get really nervous there. I broke out in hives yesterday and I didn’t even have to take my clothes off so now im feeling panicky about more people having a front row seat to what is a very private moment. I always just suffered through past appointments because it was only once a year and I liked my doctor.

I understand why it needs to be an “all hands on deck”rotation. Did anyone have similar concerns? What can I do to help alleviate my anxiety over it? What did you need? A doctor who was caring and friend-like or a doctor who was strictly professional?

I also looked a reviews online of the other doctors and the one guy has terrible reviews which is only making things worse 😞 I am wary to trust strangers reviews but makes me doubt everything.

I know this might seem like a silly fear but I’m really stressing over it.