I was married for 25 years and became a widow 7 years ago. I devoted my time to kids, work and home, not wanting to date. My girlfriend finally convince me to get back on the horse and I started to see an old boyfriend who found out he had cancer and was living with someone. Never been the one to settle for second choice ended the relationship and moved on. Overwork myself so I don’t think to much of my loss. Tried dating but now a day men seem to want only one thing. I am not the one night stand time of female so I am just not expecting to ever be in a relationship again. Am I wrong for feeling this way and putting work and gone before my happiness and just settling as if this is my life from now on????