Currently Homeless

Searching for apartments while working full time third shift. I’ve struggled in the past with friends as roommates, the guy I’m dating said he’d get a place with me but so far I’ve been spending all of my money on hotels he paid for a few nights but I’ve spent way more on food and the room than he has I feel like he’s not serious like he says...he’s been staying with me in the rooms but when he works it’s just me. What should I do? I want this process to speed up I’m not sure how much longer I can keep this up. I’ve been offered to stay with family but I’m the black sheep and I don’t know how long I can last doing that either...