Ttc difference in approaches

Hi all. Just recently started ttc for baby #3 but my husband and I have different approaches to it. I’m all into using opk and tracking and taking control of the situation for myself, he is all about “just relax and leave it on god”. This frustrates me so much. His attitude to it makes me feel he’s not really bothered and I’m all about in life if you want something you gotta do what you can to achieve it. I dunno what to think now. Cos many times I just get told not to put it on my head. How am I supposed to get him to understand that this is the way I am happy doing it not just leaving it to chance like he seems to want to. I don’t feel like we are on the same page. Advice please and please don’t be judgmental.