Dear ladies,

Thank you for all your nice words ❤️❤️🥰

Apologies for the contradictory question. The plan was that people would vote on the title 😊

I am not too happy in my own skin at the moment.

Since I was a child, both my mother and my stepmother commented on my weight a lot.

My mom because SHE was very skinny, skinnier than me (still is, she weighs around 50kgs in total), and my stepmom because she always said if I kept eating the way I did I was going to be severely overweight. (at the time I was a very normal average, but she already called me overweight)

When I met my husband I was a very normal fit to average, but I gained a bit along the way, was already a bit overweight before I got pregnant but after my pregnancy (and some added weight from my pregnancy) my body reacted heavily on the hormones of my anticonception causing me to gain another 30kg's.

Since I already felt fat while I was actually really fit, thanks to my great and lovely family... I am now really struggling with my body image.

Trying to lose some weight too but its really hard when hormones play a role 😕