Your boyfriend cheated on you with the mother of his child who clearly knows you two are togetherbut wanted to be messy. Who is to blame here?

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They’re both to blame. 
Who should you be mad at? HIM. she has no loyalty to you. She can be messy. But he’s supposed to be committed and honest to you. They both made a decision but he’s the one that broke the trust.

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Personally i wouldnt even bother trying to blame any one id be goooooonnnneee

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Both. I hate it when people say the women have no loyalty to you because that makes it seem like they're excusing trashy behaviour. He needs to be loyal to you as a boyfriend, she needs to be loyal to you as a decent human being with some ethics.

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They're both too blame but more so him....

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Both, and I’m gonna say this.. a parents mental health and stability is very important in the wellbeing of a child.. I’m not perfect at all but when my sons father has a girlfriend I do immediately try to make friends.. let them know I want the best for my child! If I knowingly play mind games and fuck around with him just because I can.. I’m messing with my child’s other half.

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In my opinion, it was bound to happen. They do have a baby together after all.. she will always have a place in his heart. My husband and I haven't been through similar

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She has zero loyalties to you but he does. It's his fault.

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Mostly him. Like 98% him since she’s not the one in a relationship with you, still not cool what she did though.

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The real question is did you stay or leave? We’re so quick to put other women down. If you stayed then what’s the real problem?

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In my eyes they’re both trash. I don’t care if she didn’t have “loyalty” to me in anyway she’s still trash just like him.

Your boyfriend cheated on you with the mother of his child who clearly knows you two are togetherbut wanted to be messy. Who is to blame here?

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