I see a lot of our toddlers in this group have became a big brother / sister. Congrats to you all who have. I am on the fence about trying for a second. My son is my first born and I am just scared that life will be much more difficult with 2 kids. However my fiancé is ready, but I am still switching back and forth. I cannot pick a side. I want another but I don’t, lol. Any advice? How is life with 2 kids? For those who still only have one, what’s your take on having a second?