If you don't have kids and you're 25-30, would you date someone who has kids?

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No way

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Tbh I’m married and have a step daughter but if we divorced I wouldn’t want a guy with no kids next time. 
It comes with issues that I’d rather not go through again 
It’s exhausting. I love her to death and I don’t imagine we’d ever divorce BUT if it happened I would not sign up for this life again lol as bad as that sounds 
I don’t have kids of my own so I would want a man who’s also kid free. If I couldn’t find one, I probably wouldn’t settle down with anyone

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I’m 22 this year and bf is 25. I just wanted to say that for some reason I just really want my partner and I to be having our first baby at the same time. I really look forward to it and I selfishly want to not have to deal with baby mamas or coming in between a kid and their dad. My dads girlfriend is the wicked witch of the east. He chooses her over us time after time. I just so badly don’t want to worry I’m being a negative anything in a kids life. However, if I was a little older and got to know the guy first, it’s possible I would go for it. If my current bf had a kid I’d stay but it would make me nervous

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If I was single then maybe. I’m 31 with no kids. Dating someone with kids wouldn’t be my first choice, but I also understand that it’s more common for people in my age group and older to have children. So while I’d like to say I wouldn’t, I’d have to address it more thoroughly once I got to that point.

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I am 37 now, but when i was dating in my 20s i would shy away from men with children. I would never even attempt to meet the child unless we had dated over 6 months. Most relationships fizzled out before meeting the children.

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Personally, no.

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I became a stepmom at 25. It is a very difficult bit rewarding life choice. Things you don't even imagine could happen, will. You don't get much credit or fairness alot of the time and the amount of heart break sometimes it crazy. 
When they wrap their arms around me, cuddle with me, tell me they love me, run to me it's all worth it. It's worth the pain, the tears, the difficulties. The good moments make the bad ones manageable. 
If this relationship were to end I don't know that I would get into another relationship with a man with children if I'm being honest. If you have questions, need insight or advice feel free to message me.

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I’m 24 turning 25 this year & my partner has 2 kids from a previous relationship. Before him I wasn’t fond of dating a guy with kids but he was just a great guy & when I realized the situation was stable & not unhealthy or toxic I was down with it. I love his kids like my own & we’re trying for our first together we want a couple of our own to add to the family. 🖤
I think it just depends on several factors. Do you want kids? Are you good with kids or willing to learn how to be? How is his relationship with the kids’ mom? Is there any drama? Etc. Just weigh the pros & cons.

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I’m 24 and my boyfriend is 35 with a 12 year old! Honestly I never really saw myself as having kids I always wanted to adopt or foster but now I have definitely rethought my life’s plans

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Most likely yes. But it really depends on what his relationship is like with the child’s mother. I’m not okay with any crazy drama.

If you don't have kids and you're 25-30, would you date someone who has kids?

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