So last week i wrote a post about not knowing how to end a conversation with a guy i wasn’t really interested in talking to anymore (we talked for less than 4 days and just about like shows and movies we liked, nothing serious). You can go see that post on my page if you want to know all the details before reading this.

Anyway i decided to just be honest with him and tell him i wasn’t interested in talking to him anymore (because i wasn’t interested in him but also mainly for the way he responded when i couldn’t answer him for a day.) He messaged me about 4 times when i couldn’t respond and that made me feel uncomfortable, i tried to be nice and explain i had a lot going on and couldn’t respond to him. The next day he messaged me good morning and i just decided to be honest and tell him i wasn’t interested in talking to him anymore.

This is exactly what i sent him “Hey good morning! I just wanted to say the amount of messages you sent when i couldn’t respond made me feel a little uncomfortable. I am not really interested in talking to you anymore. You are a really nice person and i wish you the best!” And this is what he responded to that. You can see half of what i said too.

I just thought his answer was very uncalled for keeping in mind we don’t even know each other, we didn’t even text for 5 days, i explained why i couldn’t reply to his messages, which i think was already being too nice of me given that i don’t know him and i don’t owe him an explanation. I don’t know why in his mind we were already getting married tomorrow idk what he was thinking. I gave many sings of not being interested and lastly i decided to just be honest and tried my best to be nice to this guy but he just couldn’t accept that a woman wasn’t interested in him and that he was making me uncomfortable he completely ignored that part of my message. THIS is why so many women are afraid to reject or say no to a guy because some react like this. Give me your opinion on this or if this has happened to you before. This is the first time this happens to me and it’s just a bad experience i guess. (I did block him right after i saw this btw)