So after a talk with my husband, he and I came to an agreement about him helping me out more with my soon to be 10 month old daughter. Part of the agreement is that Friday and Saturday nights he’s on night shift duty.

She’s always been a great sleeper but for the past three weeks I was dealing with her getting up through the night at least once. I think it’s a sleep regression and some gas.

Anyways, my husband would tell me (before our agreement) that there was nothing to stress over. But he also would be fully rested and he wouldn’t have been dealing with it for weeks.

So his first Saturday shift she was up for two hours. He couldn’t come with me to church because he was exhausted from it. Not to make fun but two hours made me just go 😏🙄 in my head. 🤷🏻‍♀️

So this morning I woke up and he told me she was up with him from sometimes after 3 till about 5:30. Ya’ll he told me in that raspy, whisper voice people use when they’re acting out a death scene. He was like “I didn’t get to sleep until she stopped waking up.” That’s what happens though.

So I feel bad but at the same time I’m like, you need to just push through and spend more time with her. Because he refused to do it for so long. (He didn’t do sleep times because she wouldn’t sleep right away or would take 15 minutes for him)

I feel like shouldn’t feel bad and he needs to learn. He brought it on himself for denying me help for so long when I asked for help.