I have noticed I had/have a really hard time finishing, when my BF and I starting having sex I would never finish, it never bothered me because he is my first and I had never felt that sensation before so I wasn’t missing anything. Sex felt great but I never knew what to do to get that feeling you know? The first time I came it was amazing, it was a few months after we started having sex and wow, the rush was so intense. I was proud of myself in a way for letting it go and not worrying so much about doing it right or what I imagined it would be like hearing or reading other people’s stories. I don’t come every time and we’ve been intimate for almost a year now, when I do come though it’s often 3-5 times in a row all in one session and it’s…a lot. I notice when I have to pee I have an easier time coming, I know it seems weird but it’s just something I’ve noticed, maybe the pressure against the bladder? I wish I could finish every time because it’s incredible but I find it really difficult and so far I’ve only been able to finish on top. Anyway…I just wanted to start a conversation with people who won’t be judgemental or weird about things like this. I use to be so uncomfortable talking about anything like this with the BF but since being able to talk about it more I feel so much more confident and realize that it’s not weird to talk about, especially with your partner.