My boyfriend has 3 cats. He lives an hour away. And he just got approved for a big loan to move where I live. That’s a big step.

I just stayed four days with him. And I have cat hair on EVERYTHING. I’ve washed my clothes twice and cat hair is still on them. I’ve tried using the lint roller for 30 minutes and still haven’t gotten it all off of just one hoodie. Also, there was hair floating in the air, and when I sat down, my clothes would have chunks of cat hair on them and it got in my food, I had a hard time eating. I have a toddler I have to clean up after, I really don’t want to clean up after 3 cats too.

I really like him, but of course I’m not going to make him choose me or the cats. That’s all kinds of wrong. So I really don’t know what to do, I also have a mild allergy to cats, and sensory issues with the hair. I’m autistic and fine hair really agitates me and I don’t know why. I guess because it makes me itchy. I am wanting to cry. I know it’s not a big deal, but I really like him, but I don’t think I can handle all the hair. They also kept jumping on the stove top, which not only I thought was gross considering they just used the litterbox, but if the oven was on they could have gotten burned 😥

Today is his birthday so I can’t talk to him today about it, but when I do, how do I bring it up. Do I just say like could I talk to you about something and then tell him I want to slow down the relationship and if he asks why tell him about how I feel? Should I not say anything at all? I don’t know what to do. 😰😰😰😰

Also, only one of the cats will come up to me. :(