Ladies help

Brass

Hey guys so recently I found out that I have hemorrhoids they are so painful, I’ve tried preparation h, soaking in a bath, for some reason with the hemorrhoids I’ve gotten pus bumps along the inner part of my butt cheeks and along the linings of my vagina. I went to the doctor they stated it’s herpes. Not genital herpes but just the virus herpes. So it’s not an STD. But how do I get relief from these. It hurts to sit, walk, stand up, lay down at first. I’m having difficulty sleeping. Nothing is working 😭😭😭 any advice is welcome!!!