My nearly 16 month old is going through a very bad phase at the moment. Nearly every day she has at least one episode of just crying hysterically non stop and hitting me and trying to cause me pain and throwing her toys. I know what is wrong because she wants me or my husband to hold her and walk around with her or giver her her dummy(which she’s only allowed when going to sleep) and we don’t want to hold her and teach her this bad habit or let her have the dummy whenever she wants. I don’t know what to do during this tantrum because she doesn’t want anyone to touch her or say anything or she’ll just get more upset so I don’t know what I’m supposed to do because this can go on for a very long time, her eyes will go red and puffy from so much crying. Help please