Terrible toddler 😩😩😩

Abi • 22- Mommy to baby Hugo 06.03.19👶🏻💙

PLEASE tell me I’m not alone with a terrible toddler at the moment. He WILL NOT listen to me point blank. He was such a good baby up until maybe a few months ago??? He used to be good as gold! But now omg I cannot cope 😩 I really feel like I’m failing I don’t know what to do to cope!!!!

He will not eat anything at the moment apart from crackers and biscuits like no dinner at all!!!! He just laughs at me and smiles at my when I try and tell him no and tell him off for things. He is constantly throwing items including heavy items like his cars at me directly and whenever I try and close the gate to put him in A room when trying to do something he will literally empty the ENTIRE contents of the room on the other side of the gate 🤯😩

He is also obsessed with spitting on all items and playing with his saliva or juice if he has his beaker 😩

I really am at a loss and do not know what to do!!!! FYI he is under investigation currently for behavioural issues such as autism as still non verbal and delays in other areas of development.

ANY HELP PLEASE!!!!🤷🏼‍♀️🤯