TL;DR - my fiancé is actively trying to get me pregnant instead of just “not trying, not preventing”!!

this is the long version, IM JUST SO EXCITED 🤗so when my period came back i told my fiancé we needed to decide if we were going to get on bc or not. he said he didnt care sooo no bc lol. im about to ovulate and he keeps wanting to have sex TOO MUCH, so i jokingly said we’ll never have another baby & he suddenly got real serious & asked why, i said bc we should only do it once a day or every other day. i expected him to tell me he didnt care or don’t worry about it but, he said he’s gonna take a break!!

some background, with our first he was real whatever about it and was apparently whacking it before we had sex! (he didnt know i affected anything and i didnt know he was doing it) so it took us 6 months for our first and i thought it was me the whole time when really i just dont think there was enough swimmers. him actively trying might mean we get pregnant quicker this time around 🥺🤞🏼

if you read all that, i love you 😂