I am a domestic violence survivor and I came to tell you ladies that if your partner is putting his hands on you then you need to leave. The beatings only gets worser and worser when you stay. Each time you’ll be promised it’ll never happen again and it will over and over and if you do not get out of the situation then he will end up hurting you severely. Don’t ever tell someone you are going to leave them that’s a big mistake because a lot of women actually lost their life by telling men they were leaving them. I almost lost my life the same way. I was with a boy because I don’t call him a man for 5 years on and off. I was getting beat while being pregnant twice. I got pushed down on my stomach at 6 months pregnant. I got by my tooth knocked into my lip at 7 months pregnant. I got drug down the stairs at 8 months pregnant on my birthday because I moved and got my own apartment. I got hit upside the head so many times I got vision loss in one eye. Ive also got beat in front of my 3 children. I’ve got my face spit in and so many people call us stupid for not calling the police because they don’t understand after calling the police so many times and they failed me numerous of times and sided up with him when clearly I was getting beat for saying I was leaving or caught him with other girls and he would get mad and strike me. He was a narcissist so he was doing all that to me then running around town telling everyone I was crazy and that I was abusing him. The police never helped me not one time . One time I was getting beat severely like really bad to where if I didn’t call the police he was going to kill me he had even stated that he wasn’t going to stop hitting me until I stopped breathing and I was 3 weeks PP so I called the police and but I didn’t say anything because I was getting beat on and they came and I told them what was going on he denied it it was obvious I was beat up my hair was everywhere all over my head and Im very dark complexion so I don’t bruise very easily but if you looked at me you saw signs of struggle and and they took me to jail for a old speeding ticket and he walked free they never did anything to him he denied ever putting his hands on me and tried to flip the script like I was a crazy woman so ladies before you judge the people that’s in a abusive relationship about not calling the police understand this is why. They wouldn’t let me file a report and when I asked for a restraining order they told me I had to go to another town to do it which I don’t understand why because it happened in the town I was trying to file and at the time I had no vehicle no support no one to bring me there , they treated me like a straight up criminal when I was the victim. So ladies I’m here to let y’all know pray and ask God to give you the strength and if you don’t know God then now is the time because that’s the only way I was able to get out of my situation. After you pray just leave and walk out on faith I had 3 small kids no where to go I prayed and just left and God made a way for me he blessed me with somewhere to stay until I got my own place. If I can do it then you can too. Stop thinking about what if he changes and think about what if he kill me then if you got kids where will they go when your gone ? Ladies it’s time to stop judging women as putting down on women and start trying to help one another these men already doing a good job at putting down on some of us women the last thing someone needs is someone else judging them this app may be someone’s last straw and you get on here saying mean things will make someone kill themselves. Remember everyone not as strong as you are and be cautious about what you say. I may get hate for posting this but I felt the need to share this it was on my heart to do so. Remember you are a beautiful and amazing women and he knows that and that’s why he don’t want to let you go and he’s only telling you that your not so you can feel like no one wants you but him don’t fall for it leave him before he kills you please.