Has someone ever drained you?

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I have this friend and we have been friends for a few months only and she is so nice and we have a great time together. We normally just make dinner and watch movies and just talk and hangout but I noticed that every time I’m with her I get this random extreme anxiety and once I leave her house I feel extremely anxious and depressed for a couple days. She hasn’t done anything wrong so it’s just odd. It’s like her energy completely drains me and Idk why. She doesn’t complain a lot or anything. It’s so confusing. Has this happened to anyone else?

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I do the same thing except it’s normally anytime i go to anyone’s house. I have to take a few personal days to relax and calm myself. It’s part of my social anxiety mixed with introvertness 😂

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I just typed out a whole comment and then accidentally pasted a comment from a different thread onto it and had to delete it and now here I go re-writing it…
Is this the only person that this has happened with?
Sometimes people are just very subtly negative. Sometimes you won’t even notice it, but it’s just little things that can drain your energy. If she talks a ton about her personal negative experiences, if she gossips about others a lot, or if she’s anxious or depressed herself, those are all other reasons why you might feel drained when you get home.

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Yep. Are you an introvert?

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Do you only get this feeling at her house? Not when you meet at say a restaurant or somewhere outside of the home?

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Does she use a lot of chemicals or have a moldy home? That can do it too.

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She might just have something negative attached to her or her apartment if you’re an empath you can sense these things