How long is the amount of time you and your partner tend to go without sex?

Mostly wondering about couples who have been together for at least 5 years.

When would you consider not having sex to be an issue? Less than once a week? Once a month? Etc…

** edit : been with my boyfriend for 8 years but I’ve always been the one who has the “final say” (for lack of better words) when it comes down to having sex.

My mental health has been shit lately and self-medicating has not helped (go figure). So going from having sex multiple times a day, to multiple times a week, to once a month or even longer seems like a really bad sign. Especially considering some things we went through last year.

He wants a family. I am perfectly content not having children nor getting married.

In fact I denied his proposal 2 years in. It wasn’t pretty but we moved on and now we have been together almost 8 years yet I have NO desire to get married (I don’t have the desire to get married ever though, regardless of who the person is.)