Is your first time really painful?

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I really want to know because i heard it hurts a lot and I’m so scared

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if you have a partner that takes the time and you feel relaxed, it won’t hurt

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Didn’t hurt, but wasn’t that great. Too young and with wrong partner.

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Hurt pretty bad, but was quick and then the next time wasn’t bad. We also worked up to it so the first attempts he didn’t go all the way in and finally when he did it felt like a “pop” breaking through skin. But once it’s done it’s done. Everyone is different though!

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Hurt like hell for me. Didn’t like it took me a year to ever do it again.

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He shoved it in, felt like a blunt shovel. 
I think though if y’all go slow it’ll be much better.

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It depends on a lot of things. I waited til marriage ( a personal choice ), and since I was on birth control I was more dry down there so I made sure we had lube so it wouldn’t hurt. He went so on me first n then fingered me. When we finally got down to the penetration, it did hurt , especially the beginning it hurt a lot but I told him to keep going and it started feeling good to the point that I orgasmed (which I didn’t expect to on my first time). Just make sure if you’re nervous or a little dry that lube is your friend, and if he’s gentle then it should be okay 👍🏻

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It all just depends on the individual. Though the more you stress and worry about it will only make things worse. Your vagina is a muscle and just like other muscles will tense up nervous making pentration even harder. My first time really didn't hurt at all just a bit more pressure.

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Mine didn’t hurt at all

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