My fiancé and I broke things off because he has become super unstable with his bipolar two weeks ago. Off his meds, going awol. During the split, I found out that I am pregnant (roughly 10 weeks pregnant now) and I am scared to tell him because I don’t know how he’ll react. I know he won’t be happy though.

His dad is his “support person”, so to speak, and he relies on his dad for a lot of mental support. Especially seeing as he won’t see a therapist regularly. So would it be wrong to tell his dad and have him help me break the news?