My husband just wants to hook up

Marie

My husband says he no longer wants to be committed but would like to hook up occasionally. I’m just torn up about this and don’t know what to do.

Any advice?

Update: to give a backstory: there is no backstory. As far as I knew, we were happy. 5 years and four kids. I don’t know what’s happening. I don’t understand what’s going on. I feel like I’m in some kind of nightmare waiting to wake up. It doesn’t even seem real.