My husband and I have been trying for over two years now to get pregnant. We already had two miscarriages over that time. They both ended at around 6 weeks. We had finally gotten pregnant again and thought it was going well. I was 12 weeks 5 days along. We went to a regular pregnancy checkup appointment and they couldn’t find a heartbeat. We had no idea anything was even wrong. No blood or cramping or anything. We’re absolutely devastated. We thought this was going to be our time. We had made it past the “safety zone”. I know it’s still possible, but the chances of loss go down after your first trimester. We thought we had made it and everything would be okay. We were so excited. Our next appointment was going to be the anatomy scan. Now the next appointment is going to be deciding if I want to pass our precious baby on my own in our home or if I want a surgery for them to pull him/her out of me. My doctor said it’s up to me but that she wouldn’t advise at home because it will be traumatic. I don’t know much about DNC’s or their risks. I don’t like surgeries and avoid them at all costs, but I also know that having leftover hormones and baby tissue in my uterus would throw my body out of whack and cause a lot of damage. We were going to have to choose between natural or c-section because of my hip alignment. This isn’t the natural vs surgical decision we thought we’d have to m