Hello ladies,

So.. I’ve just tested positive on being pregnant. I already have the sweetest 2,5 yo son and a stepdaughter of 8 yo. Now my bf and i weren’t yet sure about wanting another child. My bf leaning toward not wanting it because of his age (48) and I’m leaning more towards yes because I think I could love another sweet child.

Now we have no spare room in our house, nor the desire to move. My bf has his own company, taking a lot of time. And this child would be an April child, where all of our birthdays are at the end of March & April.

We regularly get into arguments around the upbringing (especially of my stepdaughter). But it mostly feels balanced right now. Half sister and brother love each other.

I know some of these things seem less relevant, but we are not sure how to make this decision. Any tips ladies? TIA 🙏🏼