Mama’s first hemorrhoid

I think it’s here you guys. My first hemorrhoid.

But I’m not positive. It hurts to wipe and it almost burns a little, kind of like I’ve used rough toilet paper and am a little sore. I only want to wipe with a baby wipe now. It doesn’t hurt when I go to the bathroom and no blood. My husband took a look too and didn’t see anything.

Ghost hemorrhoid or something else? Can they be non-visible? What’s your experience with hemorrhoids? Any suggestions on what I should do?