I'm on my 3 rd consecutive committed relationship and the red flags are showing up again. Isn't that people say run if you see the red flags? Four years en the first relationship, one and haft years in the second one and about three years in the actual relationship. The problems are almost the same (manipulation, laying, and selfishness). There is no question about love between us. But these issues I stated above make me sad and unwanted. I seriously don't know what to do at this point. Any advise will be appreciated.

Thank you