Should I be mad at him?

So guy I’ve been dating for 2 years he live different state so I was supposed to fly to see him this weekend (something he wanted) so I didn’t hear from here for a day so I didn’t pay attention. But today I kept calling him he wouldn’t answer. So when I FaceTimed he said he has a family tragedy going on right now. So I was pissed I’m like tell me if you want me to come or not so he goes cold which he never does..so I was like you know what forget you..am I overreacting? Like communicate if you still want me to fly to see you for the weekend sheesh. Should I be mad? I feel like I should