Just looking for…I’m not even sure..other’s experiences? Advice?

30 years old

Was on birth control 2007-2020 (ortho tri cyclen lo for first half, nuvaring after that)

Stopped BC in December 2020 (wedding was in May 2021 so wanted to give my body a break before ttc after the wedding)

First few months periods stayed regular (28 day cycle, 3 day period—no pms/period symptoms ever)

Since March/April they started getting longer.

Mayish-36 day cycle, 3 day period

Juneish-45 day cycle, 3 day period

Julyish- 45 day cycle, 3 day period

Now I’m on day 47, no period still, negative HPT. No symptoms of period or pregnancy noticed. But had spotting during sex the last two times.

Can’t get into my dr for another two weeks