Does it get better after becoming a single mom ?

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I’m so tired of being in my relationship. I feel like all I do is sit in the house and watch the kids by myself and I just can’t take it anymore. I want a job and I want my own place. I plan on moving to another city but I need to wait until I have a little more money. I’m just so tired every day is literally the same and I feel alone even though I have a partner. I’m just so ready to move on. I feel like he will make me feel guilty for leaving him. Probably say I’m abandoning him and tell me why I’m wrong but I can’t stay in a relationship that is doing no good to me. I want a different life than what he is giving me and I’m ready to start my own thing. It’s just so hard right now to hold it together.

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Been a single mom for 3 years. Doesn't get any easier until they start school. My family has been a huge support. Good luck! It'll get better...one day

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Seems many many women don’t know what the heck they want. You brought children into this world with this man. He hasn’t done a thing to you but you’re bored and just want to leave. Your children are growing up in a home with two parents, fewer and fewer children are blessed to be raised in a two parent household. Children raised with only one parent have a higher risk of things like becoming incarcerated, being a teen mother, dropping out of school, etc. 
You made the decision and picked this man to create a family with, think hard before you trash it. Being a single mother isn’t easy and it’s going to be harder to find the next stable relationship. You’ll get plenty of booty calls, but few men want to raise another man’s children especially financially. Find a counselor and get yourself some therapy before you change the lives of everyone in your home for these selfish reasons you’ve given for leaving this man. If you’re bored get a hobby or go back to school. If you wanna move, discuss it with your man; you never know, he may wanna move too.

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Yes and no...
Yes because you feel free and independent and only answer to you.
No because you still have to co parent with your ex and deal with all the emotions from your children because you’ve ripped there family apart and they are trying to adjust to the new normal.
Really think About it... is there no way you can communicate with your partner about the subject and how you feel? Can you both make changes so you get the best outcome and feel more settled in the relationship and not have to leave? 
If not then make an action plan, get organised and leave!

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i mean you’re basically a single mom now.

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There’s pros and cons for sure. I’m newly single after being with my husband for 10 years. There’s things I love about it and other things I’m finding really difficult. 
Your decisions will be your own, I can’t stress how empowering that is. It’s such a scary/incredible feeling to be the one to call ALL the shots with very little consideration or compromise. 
It’s also a lonely process. You don’t realize how much sitting down at the end of the evening and having someone to talk to about your day is worth. Or simply knowing someone is beside you at night incase you get sick or have a nightmare. 
It’s a hard choice to make but you sound unhappy with how things are. You either need to fix it together or move on alone.

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Yes. Harder to work and leave your kids always will be, but it gets better.

Does it get better after becoming a single mom ?

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