What do i do ??

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A guy i was talking to asked me to take a pregnancy test because last time we had sex he didn’t pull out quick enough. Personally, i have wanted a baby for a while. After a long heated conversation he made it clear that if i am pregnant he wants me to get an abortion. I really don’t want to but i also dont want to bring a child into the world without a father even tho my baby would be loved unconditionally. My period isnt due till the 30th so im just playing the waiting game. Any advice ?

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He doesn’t want the responsibility of a child nor child support included hence him asking for an abortion. If he doesn’t want kids he should be using condoms and you on birth control. Pulling out is only 60% effective and like he said he didn’t do it in time. And if you are pregnant, have him sign over rights and responsibilities the minute the baby is born if you are.  Or hope to god that you aren’t. Wait until you miss the cycle to test. Honestly I say give it a week late, give you time for it to come and get a better accurate test. Not to mention if someone told me to get an abortion and that they wanted nothing to do with me or a child basically, tells me a lot about his character. That if he didn’t realize that having sex that there was a possibility of a child, then he should not be engaging in sex to begin with if he can’t accept the consequences of sex. And I wouldn’t be bothered with him at all.

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Children are brought up without fathers and turn out just fine. But it really isnt worth agonizing over it until your missed period and positive test. Regardless, I think you should stop talking to this guy.

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